Finally listening to the recording now and I just had to pause 3 minutes in to say that I feel exactly the same way about all the Spidey stuff. If I were to answer that question, for me personally, I might have used different words but I would have said the exact same things.
Now back to the listenings...
Edit: Regarding the final question (Cap vs Batman) you should check out the finale of the Marvel vs DC (which lead into the Amalgam thing back in the 90s). The final round was, indeed, Batman vs Cap.
They more or less fought to a draw but then the sewer they were fighting in washed out and Batman managed to smack Cap in the face with a batarang. It didn't really seem to do anything to Cap but apparently that met the victory conditions laid out for the tournament.
And I suppose I can forgive you for being wrongity, wrong, wrong regarding Star Trek since you can at least realize that the reboots are not Star Trek. =P